Friday 24 February 2017

Love Letters

Have you ever written letters? I used to, until very recently, even when they have gone out of fashion. On student exchange, while everyone else used to post photographs on fb, I used to send postcards to loved ones. I tried writing letters even after that, but people don't revert any more. So "Love Letters" represents a welcome departure in this age of Facebook and Whatsapp. What else can compare with the romance of waiting for the letter of your loved one in this modern age?

On 21st Feb, I went to see Love Letters, an epistolary play written by A.R. Gurney, and nominated for Pulitzer Prize in 1988. In the Indian theater circles, it's considered a classic and is being played for more than 20 years now by Rage Productions.

The play features Rajit Kapoor (of Byomkesh Bakshi fame) as Andrew Makepeace Ladd III, and Shernaz Patel (Guzaarish and Black) as Melissa. Theater aficianados would remember "Tumhari Amrita", a play starring Faroukh Sheikh and Shabana Azmi which stopped running after the death of Faroukh Sheikh. Tumhari Amrita was inspired by Love Letters. While in the former, the actors read the letters, here, the letters are memorized and performed.

Andrew and Melissa become friends at the age of six and their friendship lasts for more than 50 years. In this period, they exchange letters and share their experiences where they discuss everything down to the smallest detail - parents, school, college, love, sex, career, marital discord, divorce, kids etc. Both are born in rich families and lead a privileged life. But money doesn't bring happiness and both yearn for a meaningful romantic relationship all their lives. With time, their lives drift apart, but the relationship gets deeper. Many letters are lengthy, some end in a single line. As the play progresses, we feel their joys and sorrows, melancholy and laughter, and live through their victories and defeats. 



The only let down was the period of their childhood where Rajit Kapoor's acting seemed a bit over the top. Shernaz Patel, however, was flawless throughout and steals the show as we live her journey from a carefree girl to a rebellious teenager to a desperate alcoholic middle aged woman.

The play uses props in a very innovative way. The boxes on which the actors sit are painted in different colours. As their life goes through different phases, the actors change the face of the box having a different colour depicting different emotions. Mostly, especially in the second half, the colour is black.

I've been friends with some girls for more than 20 years now and am still in regular touch with a few. It reminded me of the silly things we used to talk about when we were kids and how the conversations have changed over the years. At some level, I could connect with the play, which I'm sure everyone would. In the crowd, I could see plenty of old people heartily enjoying the jokes and feeling nostalgic. In these lifetime of letters, many audience were reliving their own lives. Perhaps, that is the reason for this play's longevity.

Monday 13 February 2017

The Mandatory Birthday Post

8 साल का हो गया है ये blog।  कमबख्त शुरू भी कैसे दिन किया था।

दिमाग थोड़ा सा ख़राब लगता है आजकल। अनाप शनाप कुछ भी चलता रहता है।
खाली तो नहीं है लेकिन भूसा ज़रूर भरा हुआ है दिमाग में ।

ग़ालिब क्यों नहीं पढ़ते आजकल हम लोग?
गुलज़ार की आवाज़ मुझे उतनी ही पसंद है  जितनी उनकी शायरी।

कल बड़े दिनों के बाद गुलज़ार की ये नज़्म समझ में  आयी।

Sunday 12 February 2017

The Purpose

I read on Quora that we don't need purpose. There is no purpose but to live, live well, and leave.
It doesn't make sense much. Nothing ever did anyway. 
And I keep running confused. Life would be great if it were on autopilot. 
Friends are buying cars, and houses, and shares from stock market.
They invest. 
I still find it all very boring. Everything seems like a chore. Or to fulfill a purpose. The purpose varies. To find a new job, buy a house, new car, get married, have a holiday abroad, read a new book, meet new people, network, make that call....

सचिन की batting  के पुराने video आज भी अच्छे लगते है।  
कोहली की बैटिंग अच्छी है,  पर पहला प्यार भुलाये नहीं भूलता :) 

कुछ लोगों के साथ वक़्त अच्छा गुज़र जाता है. 

जो ख़त्म हो रही है, वो ज़िन्दगी है।  
I don't read blogs I used to any more. Friends have stopped blogging. Even the other people who were regular at blogging don't do it any more.
Is it because of Facebook, Quora, Twitter, Instagram?
Not sure.
But I like returning to this place every now and then.
Hardly anybody reads it now. Which is why I also feel like writing more for myself. Earlier I used to scribble here so that the very few who do read it, might drop a comment or two. That is not the case any more. I can write with freedom, or to put in other words, without caring for anybody.
This situation is not good, because now I don't think about or review my writing any more.
It is unstructured and incoherent. And bad.
But I like it better here this way.

ग़ालिब ये ख्याल अच्छा है

नुक्ता-चीं है ग़म-ए-दिल उस को सुनाए  बने

क्या बने बात जहाँ बात बताए  बने 

--ग़ालिब 

Friday 10 February 2017

The Great Indian Cricket Team

Too much is being said of the invincibility of the cricket team led by Virat Kohli. Yes, Virat Kohli has performed exceptionally well in the past one year. But these days Ravindra Jadeja and R. Ashwin are being touted as the all-rounders which makes me laugh. Jadeja is a bits and pieces of everything (or nothing) and I am yet to see Ashwin perform well in overseas conditions be it batting or bowling (I'm not counting West Indies here). 

In the current team, Rahane walks out at number 5 after Kohli. Beyond that, I'm not sure if the present batting line up can survive in bowling friendly conditions.

In many ways, I think of the present team as the one led by Mohammad Azharuddin in the 90s. They were virtually impossible to beat at home riding on the backs of spin bowling of Kumble, Raju, and co. This team and its so called allrounders will be tested in England, South Africa and Australia. 

Thursday 9 February 2017

A Thought Experiment

Rakesh asked me a question today which made me think a lot. Rakesh has this habit of of asking very probing questions. The question was this :

"Given a chance, name three people whom you would like to bring back from history."

I usually think of myself well versed with history. But this question gave me a rude shock. I could hardly remember anybody from UK, Egypt, China, or Mesopotamia who would be relevant even today. Not that I knew people from other countries/civilizations, but I could at least think of someone important from these lands.

So I could zero in on three names.

1. Mahatma Gandhi
I think Gandhi is a man for all seasons and will be relevant for all generations to come. No one, at least not in recent times has revolutionized the way we think and act as much as Gandhi.

2. Muhammad
I would like to bring him back so that people (and most importantly muslims) across the world could actually see and understand what he meant; if he is really the prophet many people believe him to be or was just a warlord who influenced humanity in a big way. Maybe, by seeing his reality, the world would be a saner place.

3. Gautam Buddha
It was tough to pick between Jesus and Buddha. But then, I think the teachings of Buddha are far more relevant in today's world than Jesus'. Moreover, Buddha didn't claim any divinity nor was there any talk about him being the son/prophet of god. He was a teacher/philosopher who preached peace.

Please note that I picked three people who would be relevant today, not the top three people I believe have influenced history. Also, as I went through the list by Time magazine, what I found startling was that politicians and scientists have influenced history far more than anybody else, including the scientists.

However, more than anything, I realized how woefully limited my knowledge of history is. The first thing I did in the morning was to check up the list of 100 most influential people in the history. There were plenty whom I didn't even consider and then there were many whose name I didn't know.

I have to read more.

Wednesday 8 February 2017

I've studied in two colleges; MNIT and IIM Lucknow. And there was a stark contrast about how I felt about these two institutes. I absolutely hated MNIT, the college, but loved the people I met there. Maybe because it was a part of growing up and sharing the best of youth with the carefree people around who didn't look beyond that day. It was a slow but a very happy life in the days of MNIT.

IIM Lucknow was a different world. I absolutely loved the college for the facilities, administration, and the quality of teaching, but hated many of my batchmates. It's funny what money does to people. Everyone was a competitor, and nobody was a friend. Everyone was seen as a potential threat to the job offer one wanted. I'm sure the same people were very different in their undergraduate days. 

The toppers in MNIT were known to help their classmates. In IIM Lucknow, the toppers were the people abhorred by the most. Simply because of the extent to which they went to ensure that the other person doesn't get close to their grades. 

Placement committee was one committee everyone disliked but kowtowed to. Because they controlled the placements, the very thing we were spending 15 lacs rupees for. And like most of the dictatorial governments, they said this in the name of helping people. "Oh! We have to be strict so that the batch gets the best placements." There's a broad line between being strict and being an asshole. And the placement committees were assholes by a distance. 

But we were the weaklings. IIM Lucknow showed me what the world is actually like. Give people money and power, and they will show you their real face. 

I miss both the places. MNIT for the friends, IIM for the college it was. 

Monday 6 February 2017

हैरत

एक  दुनिया है जो छूट गयी है पीछे। 
कभी कभी अच्छा लगता है पुराने blog posts  पढ़ कर. 
खुद के ही नहीं, दोस्तों के भी।
मैं तब ज्यादा समझदार था या आज ज़्यादा बेवकूफ हूँ, ये समझ नहीं पाता। 
किताबें थोड़ी ज्यादा पढ़ ली हैं।दुनियादारी की समझ थोड़ी ज्यादा है पहले से।

सब लोग ज्यादा पैसा कमा रहे हैं।  इतना कि कभी सोचा करते थे कि इसका आधा भी कमा लेंगे तो  मस्त रहेंगे. लेकिन कम ही  खुश है।
जो दोस्त 7-8  साल पहले प्यार मोहब्बत की बातें करते थे, आज घर और गाडी की EMI की बातें करते है।
पहले सचिन के रन गिनते थे, आज stock market और investments की बातें करते है. कुछ दिन बाद बच्चों के बारे में करेंगे। काफी बाल सफ़ेद हो  चले है. काफी झड़ भी गए हैं।  कुछ ही साल में हम आपस में बीमारी पर चर्चा करेंगे। 

उन्ही चेहरों में पुराने दोस्त ढूँढता हूँ तो नहीं मिलते।


ये होना ही था। कोई अनहोनी नहीं हुई है इन सब में।
कोई दुःख भी नहीं है कि कुछ भी पहले जैसा नहीं रहा है।
लेकिन हैरानी होती है कि इतना जल्दी सब कुछ बदल गया है।